My preference is to install Kali via the custom image "XFCE-light". At that point, you can lock it down, add users for whatever tasks you may need, tune it, harden it, remove any other crap you don't want on it then add the packages you want and know you need. I couldn't begin to guess how many distros & various *nix's I have adminned or used since I started by installing Slak from about 14 floppy disks back in the early 90's. This particular method and config has become my favorite by far.
That said, If you are set on trying something other than Kali, both Arch and Pentoo are very decent.