Ok, so I finally got it to work.
My trick was simply using Flash 7 instead of 8
Nothing that fancy or complicated. Just follow the instructions, and if you find that it's not working for you, try switching to Flash 7 instead of Flash 8.
However, I do still suffer from a bug.
in looking at the colsol of Firebug, it would appear that I'm unable to get the first Song that plays.
However, after that, I can get the rest of the songs.
Nothing major, but I still find it slightly annoying.
But, at this point, I'm glad to have it working at all.
Thanks guys.
Oh, and to all web developers, I highly recommend Firebug :-)