So if I'm understanding this, you want all traffic that's going to port 80 (which is blocked by vz) to be automatically redirected to a different port like 8080? But you don't want to do it with dns in a similar fashion to spf (which, I don't think there's any way of doing that with a dns record anyway),
well, unless you've got some friends at verizon that have access to the routers that are blocking your traffic, you're basically s-o-l. I'm failing to see why you think that you can't keep your name though? just register with a dyndns service (unless you've got a static ip), and create a cname.
Although I think the confusion isn't that you want an ip-based redirect, but rather a port redirect. Once again ... s-o-l. The problem is that vz's holding all of the keys for port 80, and if your dns records point to your fios connection, then the first thing that any web browser's going to do once it's got the name is try to connect to port 80, which will obviously fail, since it's being blocked---*hackwheezecough*.
My best recommendation to you would be to put the site on another box, and pull the content from your connection, with the only content on the remote box being basically just a shell for you to put in the real content. (iframes, layers, php, trained llamas Iunno .. .whatever boats your float) Kinda like a pre-made pie crust.
