yey random clown i got mine to login to work now!! the funny thing is that iam not sure what i did but hear is what i did before it started to work.
opened the port 22 on both firewalls on my server system though the cmd line like they said in the videos
restarted the computer.
the command in plink i used was plink.exe username@domain name or just ip
under the tunling tab on the ssh server i chose the alow local port forwarding and allow remote port fowarding.
hope this help you to get connected if you do or if some one els could help me get my IE or fire fox connected to this it would be appreciated the error saying you only do 2.08 or something like that in the browser.